Relationships?

It was a really REALLY early day for me.
If you knew me, you would know what i mean by EARLY. X]
A friend had asked me, "Why don't you find yourself a bf?"
My reply, "Because things should come naturally, i am tired of having to search for him."

I guess to many people, naturally could mean many different things.
For me personally though, naturally is having open options and countless choices.
Many a time, i don't know why, people find it surprising that i am single.
And when i finally do assure them, they would freak. LOLS!!
Why is that?? What is your reason for thinking that?
I am seriously interested in knowing. O,O

Being alone and being lonely are two different things.
2009 is ending, and it would officially mark my 18 years of single-ness.
How do i feel? How have i been feeling?
Frankly, i have gotten used to being ALONE.
Its scary, but yeahh, shit like this happens. @,@ LOLS!!
Freedom is essential for me. I always liked things the way i choose it to be.
But being in a relationship wouldn't mean that would be taken away right?

Easier said than done.
The fear is ALWAYS there. :S
Risk is something i cant bear to take lightly.
God, help me relax!! Haha!! X)

Yet, curiosity isn't something you could kill easily.
Being independent for so many years, many people think i dont need another half,
Because I am capable, i can always sort myself out.
True, i don't neeed a guy.
But haven't you ever considered for a second if i would WANT one eventually?
HAHA!! Bet you never thought of THAT aye? XD

Oh well, to make life less complicated,
And to make things LESS awkward,
If any of you out there who are actually curious about the
"So-called" SHANN'S TYPE? Here it is. : )
And Nooo... This is NOT a checklist!! LMAO!! X]

+ Somebody i can be comfortable and be myself with (no more facades!!)
+ Caring and understanding (Important @,@)
+ Easy going, talkative, humorous!! (I like to laugh given the right reasons. XD)
+ Athletic? (Not essential, but preferably ^_^) - I don't do weenies. :S

~In short, somebody whom i could laugh, smile, cry and depend on. : ]

Easy peasy... No? : )

To think every girl would be complicated?
Reality check - It comes with the package. Lols!!

Cheers~ ^_^

Sunday, December 6, 2009 at 5:33 AM

7 Comments to "Relationships?"

shann...
this comes as a surprise..
waddup??

Dar,
i remembered ppl told me that our future is in our hand.. we can control our future by ourselves.. but to this relationship thingy.. i really think that this is uncontrollable.. things juz happen and it juz gone.. thing juz there but u cant reach.. thing juz beside u but u cant feel it, u dunno... many many cases also unpredictable... i dunno.. i think we should really juz wait n see.. everyone deserved a good guy.. EVERYONE... no one will be leave out by god.. somehow i believe in fate.. lols..

My dad told me before... love matters just like gambling.. u have to take risk to go into the things.. only u will know whether u r win or lose..

anyway, cheers...
enjoy ur time for being single with us la!! haha ^^ have fun n doing crazy stuff without worry about someone will mind... :P

Pooi ^^

I am agreeing with almost everything u say in this post! haha...

> Zuh : What surprise? These are just my thoughts. Nothings up. : )

> Pooi : Haha!! Mmm Must agree. X] Thats why i am still waiting... Waiting... Thanks anyway!! ^_^

> Joanne W : LMAO!! Thanks Jo!! ALMOST everything?? Hahahaha Which do you not? Do share!! ^_^

well well, those are simple conditions... tell u what... 不是你要求高,是他们资格低 xD seriously, those conditions really sounds easy but the fact is it is not. because its all about personality. hope u find the right one soon =)

you gooo girl !!!! woots !!! ^^



i actually believe i dun need a man in my life. but if i do need to find one, height this the first thing on my list !!!


those who arent at least talller than me by half a head, dun even think about it. lolz ^^

> Pei Yi : You are always so comforting!! Thank you Pei Yi for the advice!! I would surely be more patient and pray harder!! Hahahahhaa!! Thanks again!! ^_^

> Sandy : LOLS Woman... Hahaha... That is soo random... I should write u an ad on my blog!! XD