Thanks to Dar dar,
After 3 days, i finally finished watching
this Korean Drama 原来是美男阿! ^_^
This is the first romance series i've watched since the move on.
Eventhough it might not seem like a big deal,
But i am truly proud of myself...
For not sobbing like a baby,
For not drowning in anymore pain... : )
Unlike most other dramas i've watched,
This one turned out to be a surprise!! :D
I didn't expect to learn and understand so much,
Just from a film that probably most "macho" people won't watch.
Needless to say, there are haters in this world.
But who could stop them?? :P
The scene that gave me the biggest epiphany,
And the biggest impact was when Shinyu (who used to love Minnang), scolded Taekyong when he said he would let go of Minnang because the closer they were, more hurt she would feel.
This was what Shinyu said,
"你不是放她走，而是推开她吧！
放手这句话, 只有一直抓住不放的人才有资格说!
你抓住她不放了吗?? 我一直抓住她, 到最后也没有放手...
虽然在你眼里看起来会很可笑...
但是我坚持到了最后, 才可以放手. 你没那样做过吧...
你只是在你位置上, 看着因为累而逃跑的她,
连追的想法也没有过吧...
是啊... 你就守着你的自尊心, 一直站到她跑到远远的...
你真有出息啊... 黄泰京.."
From Left : Shinyu, Taekyong
This made me understand so much,
Why i was finally able to let go and move on...
It took that last step, the step i did that alot of people would laugh and at me for...
That "silly thing" i had to do for me to realise,
I had done my very best to save what we used to have,
But it just wasn't enough.
That made me understand more clearly.
Eventhough a lot had happened between us,
But at my very end, i realised, there was no point fighting anymore.
I knew deep down then, I deserved better. : )
Taking such a long time to learn all this,
I still feel so gullible when it comes to relationships...
Like an infant who hasn't learnt how to crawl,
Yet struggled to walk and run...
This was my own mistake... I was too rash...
Nonetheless, it has become one of the
most valuable experience life has offered me...
Even when it took the hard way to teach me this lesson,
But it will serve me as a constant reminder,
Never be rash... Always always be patient...
And never never fight for things that do not belong to you...
Because like what Minnang said,
"让我们深爱的人放弃对他来说重要的人/事, 并不是爱."
If its meant to be yours, it will be faithful...
Because to love with a forceful heart, is not love at all...
GohMinnang the Pabo :P
*~}i{~*
After 3 days, i finally finished watching
this Korean Drama 原来是美男阿! ^_^
This is the first romance series i've watched since the move on.
Eventhough it might not seem like a big deal,
But i am truly proud of myself...
For not sobbing like a baby,
For not drowning in anymore pain... : )
Unlike most other dramas i've watched,
This one turned out to be a surprise!! :D
I didn't expect to learn and understand so much,
Just from a film that probably most "macho" people won't watch.
Needless to say, there are haters in this world.
But who could stop them?? :P
The scene that gave me the biggest epiphany,
And the biggest impact was when Shinyu (who used to love Minnang), scolded Taekyong when he said he would let go of Minnang because the closer they were, more hurt she would feel.
This was what Shinyu said,
"你不是放她走，而是推开她吧！
放手这句话, 只有一直抓住不放的人才有资格说!
你抓住她不放了吗?? 我一直抓住她, 到最后也没有放手...
虽然在你眼里看起来会很可笑...
但是我坚持到了最后, 才可以放手. 你没那样做过吧...
你只是在你位置上, 看着因为累而逃跑的她,
连追的想法也没有过吧...
是啊... 你就守着你的自尊心, 一直站到她跑到远远的...
你真有出息啊... 黄泰京.."
From Left : Shinyu, TaekyongThis made me understand so much,
Why i was finally able to let go and move on...
It took that last step, the step i did that alot of people would laugh and at me for...
That "silly thing" i had to do for me to realise,
I had done my very best to save what we used to have,
But it just wasn't enough.
That made me understand more clearly.
Eventhough a lot had happened between us,
But at my very end, i realised, there was no point fighting anymore.
I knew deep down then, I deserved better. : )
Taking such a long time to learn all this,
I still feel so gullible when it comes to relationships...
Like an infant who hasn't learnt how to crawl,
Yet struggled to walk and run...
This was my own mistake... I was too rash...
Nonetheless, it has become one of the
most valuable experience life has offered me...
Even when it took the hard way to teach me this lesson,
But it will serve me as a constant reminder,
Never be rash... Always always be patient...
And never never fight for things that do not belong to you...
Because like what Minnang said,
"让我们深爱的人放弃对他来说重要的人/事, 并不是爱."
If its meant to be yours, it will be faithful...
Because to love with a forceful heart, is not love at all...
GohMinnang the Pabo :P *~}i{~*
